Coeducation, or shared upbringing between parents and other authority figures, is essential to a child's harmonious development. However, it's just as crucial that this upbringing be marked by benevolence. As parents, how can we adopt a caring approach in our educational role?

1. Active listening

The first cornerstone of caring co-education is active listening. Taking the time to listen attentively to what our child has to say, without judgment or haste, fosters open communication. It also builds mutual trust and helps the child feel understood and respected.

2. Positive encouragement

Rather than focusing solely on mistakes, it's important to highlight the child's successes and efforts. Positive encouragement boosts self-esteem and stimulates intrinsic motivation. Celebrating small victories creates an emotionally positive environment that encourages personal development.

3. Setting limits with empathy

Setting limits is an essential part of parenting, but it can be done with empathy. Explaining rules in a way that children can understand, and applying them consistently, helps to establish a secure structure. However, it's just as important to explain why these rules exist, thus fostering understanding and cooperation.

4. Model the desired behavior

Children learn a great deal by observing the behavior of the adults around them. As parents, it's therefore crucial to model the behaviors we hope to see in our children. This includes managing emotions, resolving conflicts peacefully and demonstrating positive values.

5. Demonstrate empathy

Understanding our children's emotions and responding to them with empathy strengthens the emotional bond. Children need to know that their feelings are understood and accepted. Taking the time to listen to their concerns and validate them emotionally helps build trust. Showing empathy also helps them to become empathetic with others. In this way, they understand that their actions and words have an impact on those around them.

6. Promoting autonomy

Encouraging independence from an early age helps children develop a sense of responsibility and self-confidence. Giving them age-appropriate responsibilities and letting them make appropriate decisions helps them develop skills that are important for their growth. We invite you to read our article on how to help your child to acquire more autonomy. 

7. Engage in open communication

Open communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Encourage your child to share his or her thoughts, feelings and concerns. Create an environment where children feel safe to express their needs and opinions, without fear of being judged.

In conclusion, coeducational parenting requires patience, commitment and a deep understanding of children's emotional needs. By adopting these principles, we contribute not only to their personal development, but also to the proper the proper development of their brains as neuroscientist Catherine Guéguen points out, but also to the building of solid, harmonious family relationships.